Some years ago I finally decided to leave the mother of my son after years of abuse - gaslighting, occasional (extreme) violence with knife-attacks three times and after I found out more and more about lies she'd told me - and even having affairs. Her entire life was a lie and she was a very skilfull and deliberate liar and manipulator. In response to me leaving her she ran to the courts and the police with lie after lie to character assassinate me and take all the limelight from herself. Her threats, using and abusing our three year old son were witnessed, even the police saw her lying to them repeatedly.

The results and what I and my other children had to endure, were beyond anything I could have imagined and ranged from ineptitude (a judge who put childrens' and womens' lives in danger) to man-hate, child abuse (a physical assault on my 3 yr old by a social worker), papers and official records being 'lost', destruction of evidence through sheer stupidity, crony-ism, falsified court reports, a total lack of due diligence and police with-holding vital information proving she was lying even about THE worst of allegations. AT NO POINT WHATSOEVER was I given the opportunity to produce evidence in court. Actually, I had blatant proof that she was lying from start to finish.

EVERY complaint I have tried to make has been stonewalled or ignored, the police refuse to issue a report number for an array of blatant crimes by my ex from blackmail to child abuse to break ins and thefts (even overseas!), to trashing my home, to sexual abuse, to theft to vandalism to perverting the course of justice to wasting police time to perjury (and more).

I apologise first of all for the poor quality and for the length of the video - it's over 8 hours long! But it does I hope fulfill its aim which is to illustrate the *easy* manipulations of court possible by a weeping woman (actually encouraged by vast financial gains for herself and by profiteers who milk money from the court process). The sickening ignorance of personalities who somehow, incredibly wield power over us show how stunningly vile and wanting and corrupt they are, almost without exception.

I describe what went on in detail so that numerous people involved are shamed and so that anyone bothering to put the Courts right and hold a proper enquiry WITH SOME ACTION TO PUT THINGS RIGHT has all the ammunition they need. The more tedious parts of the video are unfortunately necessary in order to explain each step of manipulation, rules broken by authorities and the mental state of my accuser, etc.: I name and shame a number of people and give clear evidence as to why I do so - I don't take this lightly.

So many men, but far more importantly, children, have their lives torn apart daily by a system filled with incompetent, bigoted people and self-seeking money grabbers.

The video could be alternatively named
"How to manipulate the Court system", "A manual for law students studying family (and other) courts and procedures", "A manual for people who are whistleblowing and fighting the stunning corruption endemic in the UK".

Hopefully the 8 hours plus of the viewers' time is well rewarded in that the amount of information ultimately given is worthwhile.

I never expected a perfect system but what I saw I was so incredible that it needs to be brought to light. I still find what happened hard to believe myself, though I still hold the evidences and proofs - it hurts to look at them and think of my childrens' lives smashed and my own torn apart, let alone the vast costs this has passed on to the state and to society in due course. Remember, EVERY attempt at complaint has been rebuffed or fobbed off - which is why I feel I have no choice but to make this video.

Now, for those who will say 'ahh come on, it can't be that bad' WATCH THE VIDEO - it's for YOU! Let me explain, as just one small example, that there were ten (TEN!) hearings against me I was never even told about but found out about years later almost by accident. I even won one case, never even knowing it had taken place! Work that one out. There may even be more I don't yet know of.

I was wrongfully arrested by Sussex Police for peacefully obtaining (further) evidence - a police force whose own Information Centre at Lewes didn't even know who its Chief Constable was if that gives some idea of the level of ignorance abounding.

This video is in two parts - the second part is films of witness statements, photographs, all manner of evidence and proofs along with detailed commentary. I found ONE intelligent person involved only - a lady Judge named Judge White who did a clever legal manoeuvre to save things from getting even worse, and who perhaps saw through what was going on. As for EVERY other person involved in or around the Court process, I wouldn't let them run an ice-cream van.

With very best wishes for everyone who has suffered - children and parents alike, this is for you.